Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Feeling helpless in a relationship

Have you ever felt so helpless in a relationship?
Like you do not know what to do anymore?
This is a sign that you should take a break.
You see, there are many things that happens.
They can be classified to two categories,
Something you can change and something you cant.
Most of the time when you feel like this,
it is because of the things you want to change but cant.
For example, things that your partner did to hurt you,
or things that does not happen to go the way you want.
You cant change all these.
So why worry? Take a break.
Have a walk in the woods, somewhere peaceful and quiet.
I choose my bedroom though.
Its the most peaceful and quiet place i find.
Pray to god. Have a simple chat with him.
Ask for his help to loosen up everything.
And you will see, that the puzzle will start to piece up.
Things will get better when your mind starts to clear up.
Dont push a relationship too fast.
Its not stable.
Do things slow =)

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