True love expects no returns

How many times have you told yourself,
it doesnt matter if the person loved you back,
just making sure that he/she is happy in his/her life is all that matters?
And how many times have you secretly wanted more than that?
and told yourself that what you have now is not enough?
That you wanted her/him in your life, love you back as much as you loved her/him.
It has always been that way for me.
I love all my loved ones as much as i could.
Be there for them as much as i could.
Watched from afar when they smile,
and at their close side when they cried.
But how many of them watched over me?
None.
Who tried to console me when im down?
None.
But yet i still love them.
For i know this is what true love means.

Love accepts the person for who he is

When you love somebody, accept him/her for who he/she is.
That includes their personality, character and their past.

Some facts about guys

1. They dont like to be possessed by others.
Even though you may be their girlfriend, do remember to give them some space,
do not try to get in between his friends.
Stop asking where his going to or
who he should or should not be with, or what he should or should not do.
Leave that to his mother.

2. When they are gaming, be it sports or computer, dont expect long answers from them.
During gaming, especially during intense battles,
they hate disturbances especially someone talking to them.
So if you are trying to get them to answer you while gaming,
you will either be ignored or recieve one word answers.

3. LOL or kk or single word texts are not meant to be rude.
They just mean they have no comments.
Not replying is rude so therefore they try to reply something.
However, =.= or Zzzz just means they cant be bothered or they dont give a damn

4. Guys arent mind reading machines, if you dont tell them what you are thinking,
dont expect them to know anything.

5. Guys dont like hints, just tell them what you want.

6. No wishy-washies, say things straight to the point

7. The more you cry for attention, the more they will not give you attention.
Just tell them what you want.

Be truthful at all times

Be it your partner, your family, your loved ones or the people around you, always be truthful to them. Why lie? Does it serve you any purpose?
Think about it, what if they found out the truth?
Wouldnt they feel more hurt?
If you were the one being lied to, wouldnt you feel hurt too?
Dont lie, it never helps, there will always be a loop hole somehow.
Even the walls have ears and eyes.
No matter what happens, saying the truth is the best.
It allows others to trust you.
And any relationship would be destroyed if the trust is lost.
So dear people, always be truthful, nothing will go wrong.

Always treasure your loved ones around you before they leave you

Have you ever encountered situations when you took your loved ones for granted?
And then one day you so expected them to be there, but they left?
Especially if he or she is so close to you?
Yes it hurts so much to see the one you love fade away.
Ive seen it way too many times and i really dont want to lose those around me anymore.
To all those who have never felt this before,
please dont make the same mistake as me, treasure them before they are gone.
You will never want to taste the bitterness and regret when you know that you have not given them your all.
An advise to all those who dont know what to do,
love your loved ones with all your might.
Not just your love partner but your family, friends and dear ones.
Love them more than anything, give them your best so that you know you have done your best.

Dont forsake all your loved ones over one person

Dear people, have you ever loved someone so much that you forsake all your other loved ones?
Or have you ever been the one forsaken?
Well, never forget all your other loved ones,
family, friends for they will always be there when you fall.
Think about it, what if you gave your whole heart into your relationship
and you neglected your loved ones.
And when you fail in that relationship, you turn back to your family and friends.
How would they feel?
Put yourselves in their shoes too. Would you want your loved ones to do it back to you?
Never put all your time into a relationship at the expense of your loved ones.
Even the time out, do remember them too.
This way you can have the best of both worlds =)

Do you ever miss the old times?

Have you ever wanted so badly to go back to where you were in the past?
Thinking of all those sweet moments you have had?
Missed the old fun times with friends or the romantic moments with your partner?
Well all of us will definitely have memories we want to keep so dear to us.
But more often than not, we unwittingly start thinking of the past and want to relive them again.
Theres nothing wrong with missing the past, but it is definitely not good if you keep on thinking of going back there.
Some people may even miss their ex-partners even though they may be in a relationship now.
Again, nothing wrong with that, its just a human behaviour but more than usual and its bad.
Memories are meant to be treasured, it keeps us reminded of who we are, the people around us, and how close we used to be.
If you ever do miss someone you really want to be close to again,
just talk

Sigificant Memory

Are there anything that would remind you of someone else?
For example, a song? Or an object?

Have you ever wanted to leave everything and have a new life so badly?

Sometimes we feel so tied up with work, with responsibilities, with our relationship,
we really want to drop everything and go somewhere nice peaceful and quiet.
Forget about all the stuff in our head, unwind everything.
Take a vacation, do what you like.
Hack off all the shit of the world.
Well i suggest its time you pamper and take care of yourself.
Get wild, get crazy. Do what you really love!
Like going on body massages to relieve yourself,
go for a drink under the stars, go for a swim in the lake!
Do anything you like, forget about all the stress and things going up in your head.
You see my dear friends, relationships are like a kite, we have to learn to let go when its time to let go, tighten it when its time to tighten.
If we cant let go when we are suppose to, this relationship cant grow.
It gets too tight and one day the string will snap.
If you have to let go, take time off, let the other person know.
Tell him or her you feel too tight and want to be free for a while.
And of course if your partner is the one who tells you that, respect what he/she wants.
Give each other some time and after both of you have chilled, get back together again. Sit down, have a talk about it.
See how you two can prevent the same things from happening again. =)

What is love?

Many people have wondered about this question.
What exactly is love?
It cant be felt, or heard.
It cant be expressed or explained in any sorts.
What then really is love?
My dear friends, love is not just a feeling.
Its not just an emotion.
Love represents the true relationship between two people.
Be it between friends, family or your partner.
So whenever you say "I love you" to another person,
say it from the depths of your heart, and mean it.